This one psycho I have to write about...
I like to think I'm a nice guy. I don't think I'm a rotten guy anyways, ie I don't mess around w/ girls just for kicks, I am pretty much a relationship guy.
So anyways I went out on a meeting/date w/ this online girl a month or so back that I should document here. I was not that optimistic about it, because of various factors. Anyways she wanted to have dinner, but I am now experienced enough to know not to have dinner w/ someone you are unsure of, you should have wine or coffee or just meet at the water fountain maybe. Limit the time and $$ committment!
So.. my impressions of her was that she was kind of cute, but not that cute, but more importantly, she seemed like a bitch in many ways. Clues:
1) She got the impression I didn't have a car, and seemed shocked. I said no, I have a car, I just don't drive often. Then she asks what kind of car I drive. Impression: materialistic
2) She said she's gone on horrible date after date so rarely goes on dates now. Impression: hates men and has given up
3) She told me about a guy she dated who had leukemia as a kid, and how she didn't want to date someone w/ medical issues. Impression: not very compassionate
4) Talked about how she loves to gamble but almost always wins because she's good at blackjack Impression: gambaholic/idiot
5) Said she was turned off by one dude who said he's liberal and is okay being a house-husband because she felt he was saying he's a leech. and doesn't want to work Impression: selfish and materialistic
6) Talked about how when she was young she remembers being able to get any guy she wanted or something like that and how different it is now for her. Impression: wtf kind of thing is that to say on a date??
Anyways I have to say after all those faults I decided to give her a goodnight kiss on the lips at the end. It was wrong since I wasn't interested, but I thought in some way it would be nice since she seemed so negative on dating and maybe she'd realize that there are nice cool guys out there!
But alas.. it was a mistake for me, because she e-mailed me saying what a great date she had.. but alas I didn't want to date her again, so I told her later that I think I'm starting to get more serious w/ another girl so I probably shouldn't see her anymore, but told her she's nice and she should keep looking and not give up! I thought that would be a convenient lie to not hurt her feelings.
Whats her reaction? Well.. she was pissed and called me a cheater! Wow thats pretty whacked. I felt bad but oh well hope I don't run into that psycho.
What did I learn from this? Well.. its not good to give mixed signals. I am somewhat on auto-pilot on dates at times which is not too smaaat.
Did I mention I'm done w/ dating? Hahaaa.
So anyways I went out on a meeting/date w/ this online girl a month or so back that I should document here. I was not that optimistic about it, because of various factors. Anyways she wanted to have dinner, but I am now experienced enough to know not to have dinner w/ someone you are unsure of, you should have wine or coffee or just meet at the water fountain maybe. Limit the time and $$ committment!
So.. my impressions of her was that she was kind of cute, but not that cute, but more importantly, she seemed like a bitch in many ways. Clues:
1) She got the impression I didn't have a car, and seemed shocked. I said no, I have a car, I just don't drive often. Then she asks what kind of car I drive. Impression: materialistic
2) She said she's gone on horrible date after date so rarely goes on dates now. Impression: hates men and has given up
3) She told me about a guy she dated who had leukemia as a kid, and how she didn't want to date someone w/ medical issues. Impression: not very compassionate
4) Talked about how she loves to gamble but almost always wins because she's good at blackjack Impression: gambaholic/idiot
5) Said she was turned off by one dude who said he's liberal and is okay being a house-husband because she felt he was saying he's a leech. and doesn't want to work Impression: selfish and materialistic
6) Talked about how when she was young she remembers being able to get any guy she wanted or something like that and how different it is now for her. Impression: wtf kind of thing is that to say on a date??
Anyways I have to say after all those faults I decided to give her a goodnight kiss on the lips at the end. It was wrong since I wasn't interested, but I thought in some way it would be nice since she seemed so negative on dating and maybe she'd realize that there are nice cool guys out there!
But alas.. it was a mistake for me, because she e-mailed me saying what a great date she had.. but alas I didn't want to date her again, so I told her later that I think I'm starting to get more serious w/ another girl so I probably shouldn't see her anymore, but told her she's nice and she should keep looking and not give up! I thought that would be a convenient lie to not hurt her feelings.
Whats her reaction? Well.. she was pissed and called me a cheater! Wow thats pretty whacked. I felt bad but oh well hope I don't run into that psycho.
What did I learn from this? Well.. its not good to give mixed signals. I am somewhat on auto-pilot on dates at times which is not too smaaat.
Did I mention I'm done w/ dating? Hahaaa.
posted by The Big Time at 11:11 PM
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