My current state of thinking

While walking home after buying some underwear @ Macys, I came to think about what I'm looking for in a girl. Its not easy to qualify.. obviously you want it all, but whats the most important thing?

I think the big shallow thing all people (guys especially) have is the issue of wanting someone who is physically attractive as the primary factor. I don't understand the reason for it, whether it is purely biological/chemical, or if it is a trained response to media blitzes and propaganda. For me, its not top of the list, but at times I wish I could put it lower on the list than it is because it is somewhat disturbing to be focused on looks too much.

I admire people who look beyond those things. I wonder if I can train myself to not focus on looks at all. Yeah, thats something to think about.

I think this came up because I meet alot of girls who I am just not physically attracted to. I try to give it a chance, but its not like my last 2 gf's who I was just smitten with. I feel the need to be smitten.