The T-man

So the T-man visited from Hon. He came cause he has a nephew and I told him he should come up to hang out. I fear I didn't show him the best time possible since my social life has been slowing down of late and there wasn't much he wanted to do specifically except eat. Eat we did, although I picked a subpar chinese place (House of Nanking) that didn't deliver what I would say is "the best". Oh well he said it was OK.

So T-man has also got an easy life. Its simple, no worries, just slowly moving along. He is happy the way most hawaii folk are happy, just happy doing the same old stuff it seems. He doesn't seem to long for more in life the way I do. Of course, he didn't have a significant loss in his life make him think about things the way I have.

In the process of the T-man visited I saw the J-man, the ex UH prof who is now a gayster out here in gayville USA. The J-man is another case of a guy who is searching for some meaning in life. Even though he has $2mm of Smoogle stock, he isn't quite happy. He is also doing menial work in testing which is far beneath a PhD like him.. alas, he lives just between miserable and OK. As many of us do. I strive to get beyond OK!!! God dammit!!!

We also got together with L-man and I-man (the Bum bruddas) in the process. Those two are also doing about the same as before with very minor changes in life. They are also around OK-level. I fear the only one who is living beyond-OK is Tombo! What the hell man. He's struggling with life but at the same time he seems happy.

I met a 23yo redhead today. Let me tell you, those redheads really peak early. I think they peak at like 18 and at 23 they are already looking like they are 30. At 35 they look like they are 45. Its quite sad, because at their peak they are quite hot. But to peak at 18... so sad. But I am just talking about exteriors. I shouldn't focus on it, I am so shallow. Hehe.

Vegas!

Different type of trip to Vegas, but very fun.

It was Booby, Boo, CRS from NY, Dr.PH from NY, and Boo's roomie ANG as the core team.
Related teams were VJ and her pals from Big-OH, and Boo and CRS's friends SuperHotGal (from NY) her Sister and BF, and her HairStylist friend, and Boo's coworker Yala and her husband J.

Anyways Friday we had awesome BBQ dinner, then went to a bar, had alot to drink, met w/ VJ at a cafe, gambled sparsly.. was quite hammered in the end. Got home at 4am and slept till 1030am and missed my Royal Shave appt!! Dammit. Bad planning. So we just went to the MGM residence pool since KRS is an owner there! Let me tell you, its quite relaxing to have a 5-star residence and private condo pool. Its way different than the hellhole pool of Harrah's or even Mandalay Bay. Really really relaxing. But god dammit it was hot like a dry sauna. 102F maybe.

Sat night went to Spago's for dinner, then to the famous club inside Caesars. Apparently it is not possible for men to get into this club in most circumstances unless you want to pay $400 to bribe all the staff (which husband J wound up doing) or wait 2-3hrs. We got in due to luck, and due to the fact that we were with SuperHotGal and that we had 5-guys/5-girls , and since we bought a VIP table w/ 2 bottles of Vodka, etc for $1,000 after tax, tip, etc. Apparently there is a long list of people who would love to just pay $1k for a VIP table, but there is even a long ass wait for that. Man that is crazy!

Gambled later till 6am, slept till 10am, gambled then checked out and then went shooting. CRS is bigtime into guns. Shot some Walter 9mm, Glock 9mm, 22 cal revolver, and a fully auto HK-MP-5. Guns not my love, but it was fun to shoot the auto. My aim sucks even at 7ft I may not kill my target. Chilled at pool till 6pm and headed home!! Sounds semi-eventful!

Club scene BTW is way better w/ a VIP table. Otherwise clubs are lame. I didn't look at many other girls, I was mesmerized by the amazing beauty of SuperHotGal. She is some 26 yo 1/2 thai, 1/2 norweigan mix 5'10" who was just god damn hot. It inspired me to try to date hotter women like this. Haha.

Another topic for later is the Beautiful People in the world...

I was down at the New Amsterdam staring at this yellow-haired girl
Mr. Jones strikes up a conversation with this black-haired flamenco dancer
She dances while his father plays guitar
She's suddenly beautiful
We all want something beautiful
I wish I was beautiful

BTW I ended up winning $600. I barely gambled, didn't have time! I had to sneak it in between hanging at the bar and club and early mornings.. I also tried playing on a $25 craps table. Man that is a wicked game. You must buy in $400 and that may only last you 2 shooters!!! My gambling has been on fire......

New Blog Coming up

I'm going to create yet another new blog when I move to Tokyo.

Thats all I have to report!!

I was discussing this odd thing today w/ my coworker. He said he got the most action in his life when he was about to move to Canada (from Shanghai). This is weird, my friend Boo has been getting action after he decided to move to VN. What is up with that? Do girls want to meet guys who are about to leave? Does some genetic propensity to have a NSA (No Strings Attached) fling kick in or something?

Anyways.....

Peak of Life

I wonder when my life will peak. Hopefully it hasn't yet, otherwise I haven't really lived.

For LeBron James, his peak may be really soon, at a young age too. Peaking too early like this is problematic.. if he wins the championship then damn, what to do next? Its a nice but tough life in some ways.

For those guys in Friday Night Lights, they claim their peak of life was their Sr. year in HS while playing for the Dillon Panthers varsity football team.

For Tombo, his peak was when he was hanging out w/ the boys in HK in 2005. Nah, but really I wonder if one can pinpoint their peak in life?

Being sick.. meaning.. optimization.. life

Well I don't know whats in the future but one things for sure I guess I need a change.

I have given this SF life about 9 months since my big breakup, and while its been fun, I think it will be more fun and meaningful elsewhere. When I think back to my purpose in life back then, in my old life, I don't know what it was. It was more to save money and buy property. Was that living life? Not really. But it was a purpose.

In my current life.. I guess my purpose should be to find a hot new girlfriend. But alas, haven't found one that is hot, nice, and worth my waking up in the morning to call. Yeah life is tough. I pretty much zoned out of finding a girl because I was doing fine just chilling on my own.

Anyways I need to get my ass in gear. I'm not getting jack shit done in life right now. Been watching lot of CSI though.